From the mailbag we have a non-phonesex question about how a “real man” approaches sex:
Hello Mistress Brianna,
For a while now, I have been emerging into the art of body worship with some women (including the art of cunnilingus). However, whenever I talk about it with the guys, they keep saying it’s not how a real man pleases a women, they only (and with no exception) want to get fucked as soon as you’re hard and ready to go.
To be clear, I do have intercourse after taking extensive time everywhere else, but I prefer to make them relaxed (perhaps a little teased) and they seem really into it.
I’m no fool to know some women just put on a smile (and maybe a scream or two) to make us feel accomplished, but I am curious…do women typically want all this sensual attention and foreplay, or does it really come down to nothing but a simple, immediate fuck most of the time?
Thanks,
Switched
Pussy Worship is NOT an act of weakness!
Switched…I suspect your friends are amongst the MANY men out there who bitch and moan (but not to other men) about how their wives only put out once a month or less. And you have discovered the reason for all the whining: some men just do what they do and assume it’s working. And “nice girls” are taught never to wreck a man’s ego with complaints about his poor performance – instead, they just don’t give him access.
The Appeal of a Dominant Woman
Is it any wonder then why some men love and other men hate dominant women? We know what we like and don’t hesitate to let you know exactly what that is – and we don’t fake it. We only leave you guessing when we are deliberately executing a mind-fuck **evil grin**.
This is a no-brainer. If you focus your time and energy on your lover’s pleasure, and not your own, they’re likely to reciprocate and enthusiastically. Think about blowjobs for a second. Yeah, there’s no such thing as a bad one… true. However, there’s a difference between a nice one and a mind-bending blowjob that puts you in sheer ecstasy. Why is that? Well aside from some who are teased/denied/chastised etc, an intense blowjob will likely happen because she wants to give you her all. Why would she want to do that, well it could be that if you give her YOUR all in the sack and focus on her pleasure and hers alone, she’ll eagerly want to please you that way. …just my two cents.
Now, if someone can just introduce a shy guy like me to a woman who wants to be pleased this way, she’ll probably lock me up in the bedroom and never let her girlfriends near me.
Excellent post Ms. Brianna. What a concept….mutual pleasure. It seems that some people get so focused on their own and their right to have it that the other half of the equation is not even considered. A truly dominant woman would scare the crap out of these guys, they would have no idea what to do with someone who can articulate their needs and actually expect to have them met!
@Danny I love your perspective, the pleasure you give someone is returned twice! The law of karma definitely applies to sensuality and sex. Don’t you worry dear the lucky girl that gets you will definitely keep you all to herself!
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